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Reasons to Involve a Funeral Director in Cremation Arrangement

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When a loved one asks that they be cremated, it is easy to think that you can arrange the service without the help of a funeral director. Notably, you can find government-run crematoriums where all you have to do is pay a fee and have a loved one's body cremated, then collect the ashes later. It might seem like a straightforward process until it is not. Funeral directors play an integral role in cremations, and thinking you do not need their services is naïve. This article highlights the top reasons you need a traditional funeral director to help you arrange the cremation of a loved one.

Ensure Separation of Ashes 

Currently, Australia does not have a legal requirement for funeral homes to separate the ashes of cremated bodies. However, how would you feel if you found out that a loved one's cremation remains mixed with another person's ashes? Of course, no family wants to go through such an experience, but since you have no legal recourse, there is very little you can do to right such errors. A licenced and qualified funeral director's role is to ensure that cremation ashes do not mix at any point. The reason is that funeral directors understand the emotional toll such an experience can have on grieving families. Therefore, rather than welcome the risk of taking home a portion of another deceased person's ashes, work with a funeral director to ensure that the only cremation remains you leave with are your loved one's.

Personalised Cremation Service 

Cremation services can be conventional or personalised. It all depends on who you are dealing with. Clients who prefer not to use a funeral director to save costs do not have many options regarding cremation services. Therefore, a loved one's body is cremated as you watch and wait for the ashes to be processed before leaving with an ordinary urn. However, a professional funeral director goes the extra mile by personalising the cremation services for clients. For instance, a funeral director might allow a close family member to push the ignition button to start the cremation process. Similarly, a funeral director might advise you on what to do with cremation remains.

Emotional Support 

Coping with the loss of a loved one can be challenging, and you might not entirely focus on funeral service arrangements. Thus, you are bound to forget the most mundane tasks, such as choosing an urn on time, if you do not involve a funeral director. Since funeral directors are trained to offer emotional support, they can help you handle some of the most crucial aspects of a cremation service. Such support makes cremation and funeral arrangement tasks less overwhelming.

Contact a local funeral director to learn more about what they do.